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Men cheat for the same reason they perform any other sin. It is in his nature to sin against God. The idea that you can “reason” or “rationalize” the desire to sin is ridiculous. A man cheats on his wife for the same reason a puppy poops on the carpet; because it is in his nature to poop when ever and where ever he feels the desire to. But just as puppies can be trained to poop at the right place and the right time, men can likewise be trained to have sex at the right place and time.

When a woman has sex with a man “before marriage,” she is reinforcing and or strengthening the man’s sinful nature. This is done by encouraging, allowing or participating in his having sex whenever he wants and not at the right place and time as God has ordained it. Likewise, you cannot feed an animal table food and then expect it to go back to pet food. It confuses the animal. Animals have to be trained to eat the right food at the right time and from “only” the right place Similarly, you cannot allow your pet to sleep on the bed and then expect it to sleep in the yard when you have Bedroom Company. The pet needs to be “trained” to sleep where  his “master” commands it to.  Men by their nature sin against God when they have sex outside of marriage. A virtuous and Godly woman should never be a part of reinforcing sinful behavior. Begin the process of “training” him. Not you, but the Holy Spirit in you can tame the savage beast.

Being with a Godly woman is like being in the presence of an advocate for the King.  Represent Christ in your dating and you will be rewarded.